I guess that it might just be in our nature as people, but one thing that seems to bother me is when someone tries to should you to death. What do I mean by that? It's something that everyone has experienced in one form or another. Either you are predominately someone who is doing the shoulding or you are the one getting shoulded. To be honest, everyone falls into both categories at one point or another, but we are usually in one most of the time.
So what does it mean? Well, say you are in any situation, it doesn't matter, really. What happens is you relay it to a friend, a family member, coworker, group of people, or the local hobo. This person again, doesn't matter and is interchangeable. You tell them of your woes and then their reply goes something like this ..."You know what you should do? You should do this (insert some dumb ass thing that is very easy for them to suggest since they are not in the situation at hand)"...
How many times has this happened to you? How many times have you done it? I would say a lot in both counts. I'm not really sure how or why this happens, but it is rather lame since this person who plays a member of The View in your life usually just spots off simple here say answers and when you explain by saying something like this "Yeah but, it's not that easy." They just stare at you like you are a deaf mute. I'm not sure why this happens but, it does and it gets rather annoying rather quickly. If anything it just adds to your problems. God damn people.
i guess ure talking about that "I'know and you dont know" nature. Nature that we all have sometimes.... yeh u n me an those we dont know about.
ReplyDeletethe other day we were 5 guys, sitting high above on the terrace having a get together and a 360 night view. I'd introduce you to them as the first was a Photgrapher,2nd Video prof,3rd e-com specialist,4th racist and 5th a designer.
As the talking began, 4 of the guys realize and experience a real life racist ( since no one met one before) and were like "ooohhHHHH man" this guy is hurt.
i mean after a while it was like 4 vs 1 .
cuz the racist says all his experience somehow trying to convince that the world he lives in is real. and "i know u dont know" attitude.
he blabbered a lot, and the rest 4 were just... " no no i we know and u dont know" "our world is real"
after half n hour it was like 3 vs. 2, cuz one of them somehow had an experience which the racist had and within 30 mintues the E-comm guy was a racist too.
after an hour, it was 2 vs. 3 racist cuz the photographer too somehow joined them cuz somehow he remembered a experience in childhood which in some funny way was being related to racisim.. so now we have 3 racist....
all that while...
1- " no no ,its not like that" - photographer
2- " Damn you don't realize " - racist
3- " Wait, wait, let me just add something CORRECT here." - Video guy
4 - " YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD DO " - e-com guy
5 - " Damn why are why guys talking about polictics !!" - designer
some how, after n hour ,
"no no , yeah yeah, ohhhHH no, ohHH yes" made them like 4 vs 1.
cuz only the designer was left out not being a racist.
the last thing which happened was.... when the designer was being told.. that " no no , HE'S RIGHT"
and that's when i, the designer thought that it was the right time to head home before things become serious.
thing is, we do have that nature of " i know u dont know" which maybe sometimes is right.
we cant force someone to learn from our experience. no doubt its a wild world out there, we tend to be professionals, but if the conditions are intensive and if its about survival....im sure, we wont think twice before even killing someone for keeping ourself alive.
Thats me, my experience. i didnt add anything to the topic. cuz i dont know politics.
what i prefer is to look in the condition in hand, look inside me, see what i can do... and not what the system would for me.
its a game.. i wont blame the players... not even the game...
cheers.